Transracial Adoption

I have found many people to be curious about what life will be like for our child and family. People are curious especially since we are adopting a child of color. We know it will not be easy, but we are doing as much as we can to educate ourselves and those closest to us. We just had Thanksgiving with a family member who had adopted children. It was such a blessing to see a family full of love and no one seeming to notice children who were ethnically different than their parents. In the end, we know that grace will transcend our outer differences and bind us together as one family.
Here is the "Transracial Adopted Children's Bill of Rights:"

* Every child is entitled to love and full membership in his or her family.
*Every child is entitled to have his or her heritage and culture embraced and valued.
* Every child is entitled to parents who value individuality and enjoy complexity.
* Every child is entitled to parents who understand that this is a race conscious society.
* Every child is entitled to parents who know their child will experience life in ways differently from theirs.
* Every child is entitled to parents who are not seeking to "save" a child or to make the world a better place by adopting.
* Every child is entitled to parents who know belonging to a family is not based on physical matching.
* Every child is entitled to parents who have significant relationships with people of other races.
* Every child is entitled to parents who know transracial adoption changes the family structure forever.
* Every child is entitled to be accepted by his or her extended family members.
* Every child is entitled to parents who know that if they are white they experience the benefits of racism because the country's system is organized that way.
* Every child is entitled to parents who know they cannot be the sole transmitter of the child's culture when it is not their own.
* Every child is entitled to grow up with items in their home environment created for and by people of their own race or ethnicity.
* Every child is entitled to have places available to make friends with people of his or her race or ethnicity.
* Every child is entitled to have opportunities in his or her environment to participate in positive experiences with his or her birth culture.
* Every child is entitled to opportunities to build racial pride within his or her own home, school, and neighborhood.

What to do while waiting for a baby?

Bike 17 miles down a mountain in Virginia!

One Month Down

Well, as of today, we have been officially waiting for one month! That means we are one month down and eleven more to go! We made it thus far and figure another eleven months will be a breeze!